He was born on this day.
Seventy-seven years ago.
Christmas day was always a day of
celebration in my house: A day to give thanks for the gift of my father’s
birth, a day to wrap presents and cook special meals, a day to bake black
forest cake with cherries. We used to say the whole world celebrated his birth,
and I always believed it.
There will be no celebration this year. No pictures taken by
the fireplace. No hugs. No kisses. No shrimp in garlic sauce for dinner, no
sweet potatoes, no almonds covered in dark chocolate with green tea. No returns
the following day for the sweaters that didn’t fit, or the pants that where too
long.
Six months have passed since he left us, and he keeps
visiting me in my dreams on a daily basis. Does my subconscious refuse his
passing? Of course it does! Do I cry out of the blue sometimes? No doubt I do!
Does the belief that he is in a better place make it easier? No, it does not!
There will be silence in my house this year. Prayers and
reflections, memories told and old pictures shared. There will be fasting,
too.
Lilas Taha is a novelist, winner of the 2017 International Book Awards and is the author of Shadows of Damascus and Bitter Almonds.
Lilas Taha is a novelist, winner of the 2017 International Book Awards and is the author of Shadows of Damascus and Bitter Almonds.